There are times in life when you find yourself feeling like you have no real clue what’s next.
Whether that has come about as a result of a major life change, maybe your hormones seem to have gone a little haywire, or you’re an empty nester. If you’ve been the decision maker for so long you probably have no idea what happens now you’ve been presented with this blank canvas staring back at you.
You might stay stuck because you’re entertaining the stuckness.
See yourself as stuck, and as a result you see things reflected back to you that shows you how stuck you are.
It’s a case of ‘like attracts like’.
So how long do you stay stuck there before you start to move forwards?
Are you allowing yourself a little breathing space before taking what maybe feels like a big scary step?
Are you struggling to work out which way forwards is, what it might look like, or are you unable to recognise what action you can take that feels big enough to warrant this time of change in your life?
Sometimes it’s a case of shifting the energy that’s keeping you stuck – actually physically getting moving and allowing that staleness to jiggle around a little and stop feeling so heavy. And in some cases, it might just be that you’re coming to terms with what has happened that found you there to begin with.
Perhaps you’re feeling like ‘enough already, I’ve had it with being stuck’ – great! I have tools that can help you on your way. Book in a call and let’s chat about what it might look like to free yourself from this quagmire.
But if you’re in the zone of almost feeling like that stuck space feels safer than other possibilities –perhaps that too is a reason to book a call. I’d just like to reassure you that a huge part of my experience comes from understanding what its like to be in that stuck place, many times over in life – at points I didn’t think I’d ever be free again and now that I’m am, I’m only too happy to help you work your way loose again.
If you’re just finding your way around after a great deal of uncertainty, now’s the time to take back that control and see life through a clearer lens once more, with feeling.